Listen up beloved readers! This is a very important post as you can see from the picture above!
Whatever I receive for synchronicity in my daily life is what I love to write about here. It is how I communicate with Robin’s soul now that he is living life in Spirit. I acknowledge and honor the synchronicity I receive by writing about it and sharing it with you.
Sesame Street Stamps
On Wednesday, November 13th, around 1:45pm, my husband showed me a booklet we received in the mail. It was from the U.S. Postal Service. It is a gift guide showing a wide variety of historical, artistic and generally fun, interesting stamps.
It is free and you can get it here if you’re interested. It’s really nice if you like special U.S. stamps for the holidays and other occasions. It was sent to me for free because I have an account set up with them.
My husband Julian folded over some pages of the booklet before he showed it to me. One of the pages he saved for me to look at showed a sheet of Sesame Street stamps. It seems he thought it was important for me to see them! They are very cute and if you click here, you can see them.
After we looked at the other stamps he wanted me to see, we got ready to go out, ran some errands and headed to our Spanish class.
Google Alert-Stamps Synchronicity
The next day, November 14th, during the early afternoon hours, I checked my email. I had been so busy on the 13th that I did not check it at all that day.
As I scrolled through the messages, I noticed a Google alert for Robin that I received on November 13th. Years ago, I signed up to receive them so I could keep in touch with any news related to him or his estate.
When I clicked on the email to open the message, I was so surprised when I saw this headline:
20 great ‘Sesame Street’ musical moments for the show’s 50th anniversary
Here is a screen shot of the Google alert:
I received the email at 3:01pm, which was only a little over an hour after my husband showed me the stamps. For me, it was another heart-touching synchronicity!
Here is a link to the article where Robin is mentioned. It highlights Sesame Street’s history with singing and music.
Deceased Twin Soul Connects with Twin and Twin’s Spouse Incarnate on Earth
I have described this spiritual, psychic triangle between Julian, Robin and myself previously. The writings of James Judd, which I reviewed in this post, explain the deceased twin soul-incarnate spouse connection very well (see page 40-41 on the link provided).
I wrote this post over a year ago. I thought it would be good to briefly present it here again because of all the books and articles I’ve read over the years about twin souls, James Judd’s writings are among those that ring the most true for me.
I have found that not many people write about the spiritual connection between a twin in spirit and the spouse of their twin still embodied in the physical. It is quite fascinating. James Judd is one of the very few people I have found that write about exactly what I have been experiencing.
This 3-way connection has become abundantly clear to me over the years. If you have been reading my posts for awhile, I hope you can see what I’m talking about.
I think it is also apparent, as evidenced by multiple posts I have written, that the spiritual connection between Robin’s soul and my husband is extremely reliable and frequent.
If Robin wants to use Sesame Street to demonstrate this 3-way connection, that’s fine with me because it is cute and good for the heart! He had a strong connection with Sesame Street. I feel like he wanted to bring this to my attention so I could include this compilation here. There is a serious lack of Sesame Street, but not anymore!
If it was not for Julian showing me the stamps, I know I would not have paid too much attention to the article on Sesame Street mentioned in the Google alert. Also, if it weren’t for my husband, I don’t know when I would have seen the stamps in the booklet due to my busy schedule. So, a key aspect of synchronicity is that it causes us to pay attention to things we may not have otherwise attended to.
Examining the Synchronicity
There is a lot in the media about Sesame Street right now, whether articles, television shows or commercials due to the anniversary.
But Julian showing me the stamps on November 13th did not have anything to do with the 50-year anniversary. There was nothing mentioned about the anniversary on the page of stamps in the booklet and he didn’t say anything about it. They were something he felt guided to show me.
Also, it was only when I saw Robin’s Google alert on November 14th that I found out it was the 50th anniversary of Sesame Street. Before that, I didn’t know. The anniversary was November 10th. As of November 17th, I have not received any other Google alerts about Robin and the Sesame Street anniversary.
By saying all of this, I’m demonstrating that it is a genuine synchronicity, not just an occurrence that happened because of the 50th anniversary. I think it is good that I do this type of examination with the synchronicity I receive because one of the key elements of synchronicity is the surprise and unexpected nature of it.
It is also all about the timing of events. I rule out other possibilities for the alignment and then if I feel in my heart it is a true synchronicity, I write about it on this website.
One thing about synchronicity I love is that it cannot be manufactured by humans. It also cannot be created by wishful thinking. I can invite it and I do, but I have no control over it or how it manifests in my life. That is what makes synchronicity so brilliant and a great way to communicate with loved ones in spirit! To me, it is a form of spiritual play!
It is my personal belief that synchronicity is a spiritual phenomenon that manifests in the material world. It is the interplay between humans, the physical world, and various unseen spiritual beings which could include God, our guardian angels, spirit guides, soul mates, twin souls, ancestors and soul family.
Unseen Spirits are amazing at bringing two or more events together in a synchronistic fashion in a way that is beyond our human abilities. We are part of the equation however, and many of us are very good at noticing and recording the synchronicity we receive. By doing this, we are letting the loving, unseen forces know that we care, are listening and paying attention. This helps to contribute to the generation of more synchronicity.
Robin Gibb’s Sesame Street-Inspired Music
Just for fun, I thought I would share some of Robin’s music to honor his connection with Sesame Street.
And if you’re going to listen to that, you might as well listen to Trash while you’re at it! I love it!!! It’s a great way to celebrate the anniversary.
Don’t forget “C is for Cookie.” I think I’ll go and get one. Why don’t you join me? Chocolate Chip anyone?
Robin looks cute with Big Bird here and with his children and Oscar here.
Molly, six-year-old Spencer and four-year-old Melissa had also joined Robin in the States for a visit to Sesame Street. As both children were fans of the Public Broadcasting System’s award- winning television program, Robin had agreed to participate in the recording of the Sesame Street Fever album, with the stipulation that his son and daughter be allowed to meet the Sesame Street characters they loved.
Robin found himself sharing vocals on the title track with The Count, Grover, Ernie and Cookie Monster, and providing a spoken intro to ‘C Is For Cookie.’ His song, ‘Trash,’ was released as a single in October and remains a novelty favorite for many Bee Gees’ fans today.
As Robin put it, “How often does one get the chance to work with Cookie Monster?”
The LP went gold less than four months after its release, and Robin and his family traveled to New York to be presented with the award by none other than Big Bird. (2)
After receiving this synchronicity, I bought the stamps. They are on their way to me as I write! I see them as a keepsake reminder of this communication.
This afterlife message is a cute gift from God and Robin with Julian’s very important assistance! I hope you enjoyed it and that it put a smile on your face.
Take care and I look forward to writing for you and Robin again soon.
Editor’s Note: This post may display some spacing issues that we’re working on resolving.
On November 4th, I had some down time and relaxed by taking a bubble bath.
While I was in the tub, I started thinking about the world and the shape it is in, with wars, political unrest and violence all around the globe. I was having a moment of contemplation.
Then I started thinking about Robin and the Bee Gees and the vibration of their music. While I was thinking and sitting there, I had a quiet, private conversation with Robin and said that his music was and is so important for the world. I said it is important because many of the Bee Gees’ songs have a higher, soft, gentle, healing, loving vibration.
I said to him that his music serves as a counterbalance to all of the harsh, negative energies of this world. I spoke with him and said how important it is that he came into this world and was able to create and bring this loving, soft, gentle, but also fun and energizing vibration.
I also said to Robin that because of him, his brothers, and Mr. Stigwood, evil and dark energies can never 100% take over this world. I said that is because his music will always be here, contributing to the counterbalance and because of that, evil, negativity and spiritual darkness would never have a complete, 100% takeover and foothold on this world.
Love is always here in a multitude of forms and the Bee Gees’ music is a part of that. All forms of love and beauty are part of the counterbalance.
I also thanked his parents for the contribution they made to bringing this music vibration into the world because if it weren’t for them, there would be no Bee Gees.
When I was done talking with Robin, I said to him, “The key word is counterbalance.” I said this because I felt like this was a strong communication I was sharing with him. I wanted to give him a key word to communicate back with me that he got my message.
I said it from my heart and then finished up my bath.
Counterbalance Synchronicity: Julian and Robin
On November 5th, I spent some time talking with my husband about a disturbing news story I heard about the night before. He listened to me quietly and then said, “All of the negativity and violence, lets counter it with love, peace, gentleness and kindness.” It was a very sweet response characteristic of my husband.
But, I was amazed because, through my husband, I was receiving the key word back that I mentioned to Robin the evening before.
The word, “counter,” is obviously close enough to “counterbalance” for me to accept it as a communication back. He used the word “counter” in the exact same context that I was speaking with Robin about, which is to bring more loving and kind energies into this world to counterbalance the negative energies.
I feel that this communication shows that we are one in spirit. Honestly, sometimes I don’t know if I’m just talking with Julian, or if I’m talking with Julian and Robin, with Robin’s spirit coming through my husband. Either way, the synchronicity is pretty incredible.
During my discussion with Julian about his comment and what I had said to Robin, I realized that I too have a responsibility to be the counterbalance to the negative energies prevalent on this earth. I could imagine Robin saying to me that the same qualities I see within him are within me as well. I’m not a singer like him, but I can be the counterbalance in other ways, such as through this blog, my art, and how I carry myself in this world.
You can be the counterbalance in many ways as well, if you so choose.
Counterbalancing Organizations
One other way I like to be the counterbalance is by supporting organizations like World Central Kitchen founded by Chef José Andrés.
He and his team feed people all around the world that are suffering due to natural or man-made disasters. I found out about him during the aftermath of Hurricane Dorian. He is part of the counterbalance. It is important to know that there are tremendously good people in this world doing life-saving work on the front-lines of these disasters. They are balancing out the pain and loss by bringing in love and care.
Dia de los Muertos 2019
Here is a picture of Robin’s altar from our Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) celebration.
For Dia de los Muertos 2019, I offered Robin’s spirit fragrant yellow roses and oatmeal with almonds, cinnamon, brown sugar and bananas and a mug of green tea.
I have honored him on these days for years. It’s beautiful to do this and strengthens our spiritual connection and love.
If you wish to strengthen your connection with a loved one in spirit, I highly recommend leaving food, drink, floral and other types of offerings for them during any time of the year. Of course, it should be something you are comfortable with doing.
It’s not just about the effect it will have on them. It’s also about the effect it will have on you. It’s a lovely thing to give in this way. I felt my heart expand in love for Robin as a result of leaving him food and drink offerings.
My heart also expanded in terms of Universal Love in that I felt that I was in a stronger love vibration in general when I interacted with my husband and people in the world. This is also part of the counterbalance. Doing this can change your vibration for the better.
If you are feeling down, one suggestion is to share a treat with a deceased loved one if you have someone you feel close to. All I can say is it has helped me in my relationship with Robin and other deceased loved ones over the years.
Brief Health Update
I will be having a biopsy on the lump in my leg on November 12. My oncologist still thinks it is likely to be benign, but the MRI could not definitively determine exactly what it is or whether it is benign or more aggressive. So, we’ll see. I’ll let you know. After what I’ve already been through with breast cancer, I feel kind of detached from it.
I’m going to do my usual things, like study my Spanish (which I really enjoy) and stay positive and upbeat. I have a dream that my husband and I will be able to go to Mexico in 2020 to experience the Dia de los Muertos celebrations first-hand!
God and Goddess bless you and take good care. I will write again when I have something good to write about!
I have recently written a post about synchronicity related to a dream I had about Robin.
Now I have another synchronicity to share that is related to a dream, but not the kind you have when you sleep. It is about the kind of dreams we have that we want to come true in our daily lives.
My Personal Dream
On Friday, October 11, 2019, I was up late doing some journal writing while sitting at Robin’s altar. After I wrote about some issues I wanted to get clarity on, some space was freed up in my soul to think about my dreams.
So, this is what I wrote about my dream of traveling to the U.K. I have never been there:
My dream:
To abundantly, safely, lovingly and beautifully, with great health, live in the U.K. for 6 months with Julian and Robin (in spirit), including:
England: Thame, London
Ireland: Dublin and other places
Scotland: ? Edinburgh
Wales: don’t know where yet
Isle of Man: St. Catherine’s, Douglas
I submit this dream to God the Divine, the Core, and I ask for this to come true. Thank you. Amen.
That’s a big dream, but hey, why not? I’ve got nothing to lose by putting it out there.
God and the Core
“The Core” refers to a description of God I had been reading about that day in a book by Eben Alexander, M.D. called Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon’s Journey Into the Afterlife. I saw him speak in 2013 when I lived in Colorado and it was amazing to hear about his experiences.
Here is an excerpt from Dr. Alexander’s article which contains a very good description of the Core and his spiritually transformative experience while in coma. It is very similar to the description in the book:
The chants and hymns thundering down from those angelic choirs provided yet another portal to higher realms, eventually ushering my awareness into the Core, an unending inky blackness filled to overflowing with the infinite healing power of the all-loving deity at the source, whom many might label as God (or Allah, Vishnu, Jehovah, Yahweh – the names get in the way, and the conflicting details of orthodox religions obscure the reality of such an infinitely loving and creative source).
When I think of God, this is what I think of. From the first time I read this, it really captured my attention. I felt in my heart that what he was saying really fit how I felt about God.
United Kingdom Map in a Humorous Context
After I finished my journal writing, I went to watch a t.v. show before going to bed. I decided to watch Netflix and the show Comedians in Cars Getting Coffeefeaturing Kate McKinnon.
As I watched the show, I was surprised to see a map of the U.K. show up on the screen when Kate McKinnon was talking about her relatives from the Hebrides!
Here is a screenshot from the episode showing the map:
That was about an hour and a half after I wrote about my dream in my journal (around 1:30 am Saturday, October 12). It was incredible! Of all places for a map of the U.K. to show up. I don’t know anything about Kate McKinnon, so that was quite unexpected.
If I had seen a map of the U.K on CNN or something like that, I would not have considered it a synchronicity because I would think it would be commonplace to see it on an international news station.
I take it as a synchronicity because of the unusual place the map showed up and the surprise element. Since I mentioned Robin’s name in my journal entry about this dream, I feel the synchronicity is connected back to him and once again, includes my husband. It is also a special synchronicity since the U.K. was Robin’s home.
I hope it is a good omen!
Writing and Afterlife Communication
Maybe you can try this same exercise. Write out what your dreams are and see how God, the Universe or your loved ones in spirit respond. You may get a message back quickly as well, but even if you don’t, it is still worth doing. Messages from spirit come when they are meant to and when we need them.
I have noticed a connection between afterlife communication and writing recently and over the years. I received a message back from Robin very quickly after writing my request for a sign, which I wrote about here, regarding peppermint.
So, if you want to communicate with your twin or loved ones in spirit, I would highly recommend writing out loving messages and requests to connect with them. It is very effective.
Afterlife Communication and Higher Worlds
Through profound and precise synchronicity pertaining to Robin, I have become attuned to higher worlds because it feels like the synchronicity is coming from there. There seems to be an interplay between higher worlds and the physical plane that manifests as synchronicity.
Dr. Alexander writes in Proof of Heaven about the higher worlds as being closely intertwined with our own. I believe this is why we can communicate with loved ones in the afterlife and why they can communicate with us here on earth. Here is a quote from him expanding upon this notion:
The world of time and space in which we move in this terrestrial realm is tightly and intricately meshed within these higher worlds. In other words, these worlds aren’t totally apart from us, because all worlds are part of the same overarching divine Reality. From those higher worlds one could access any time or place in our world. (1)
Because of the afterlife communication I have shared with Robin over the years, I know that his spirit is still a part of this physical realm while at the same time, being beyond it.
His spirit came into my world, home and relationships and illumined them with his teachings, love, beauty and creativity. His presence really opened up my heart to the truth of the afterlife and his ongoing life.
His strong presence in my dreams over the years opened a doorway into his realm where I got a soul-sense of what his energy is like. I feel deeply connected to both him and a loving realm beyond the boundaries of the physical earth because of these experiences.
I have come to feel that my spirit is part of his realm as well. This is a result of the afterlife communication that has been very deep and life-changing. I can say from personal experience that connection with a higher realm begins to rub off on you. As a result of the communications, I often feel a sense of joy, peace, wonder, and bliss that I believe are a part of the realm Robin lives in.
Over the years, I started to feel and continue to feel that I do not only dwell here in this physical plane on earth. I am a part of Robin’s world too, which will be my world sooner or later.
Rudolph Steiner writes about this in a book called, How to Know Higher Worlds. Here is a quote describing this, which you can also read here:
“…His gaze is directed to worlds higher than those with which every-day life connects him. And thus he begins to feel and realize, as an inner experience, that he belongs to those higher worlds…” (2, See section “Inner Tranquility”)
It is nice to already feel to be a part of this higher world before I cross over. I feel this especially during the actual moments afterlife communication is occurring or even from photos I have taken documenting it.
Many people are aware of connecting with other dimensions or higher worlds during sleep. You can also be connected to higher worlds while awake through prayer, music, meditation, various art forms, chanting, nature and synchronicity. All of these can lead to attunement with the Divine. Some people astral travel and experience higher worlds in this way.
Profound afterlife communications of various types (including telekinesis, electrical activity) are additional ways to connect with other dimensions of existence and higher worlds. Through these activities, someone is letting you know that they are there in a world unseen to humans that exists above and beyond the earth plane, but can still interact with it nevertheless.
It is through my connection with Robin in spirit that I have truly come to embrace and live within my multi-dimensional nature. I am here on Earth, but I’m not only here. I am connected to other beautiful dimensions too. Synchronicity helps me to feel this connection quite intensely. To be honest, at this point, I would feel too limited as a soul if my connections were only with people in physical embodiment.
Afterlife communication can help open a person up to their multi-dimensional nature and a deeper connection to higher worlds so that we can feel like we are a part of them while still embodied on earth.
These insights opened up to me beginning in 2012 after Robin’s physical death. Being guided into higher dimensions may be something that happens when a person on earth has a twin soul, flame or soul-mate in spirit and the connection is strong and loving.
I think this could also happen as a result of close afterlife connections with biological and soul family members in spirit.
Being guided into higher worlds by someone in the afterlife could happen due to close pre-existing soul connections. But you could also be surprised with a communication from someone you did not know who is now in the afterlife and it could happen that way too.
As always, I hope you enjoyed this post and got something beneficial from it. I appreciate each and every person who reads my posts.
I had an MRI done on my leg on October 25th. My oncologist thinks it’s a benign lipoma, but wanted me to do this to make sure. Wish me luck! Best wishes to all going through the same thing!
Hello! I’m happy to be back to share some messages with you. After my last post, I needed a little break from writing so I could attend to some other things.
In terms of a brief health update, I recently found a small mass in my right leg (calf). An ultrasound was done and determined that further tests need to be done, like MRI or CT scan.
It could be a lipoma, but I won’t know for sure until further tests are done. So, I’ve been preoccupied with this new thing to deal with. But I realize many people are going through the same thing, so I thought I would mention this to let you know I can relate if you happen to be going through this.
I feel a connection to the breast cancer survivor sisterhood and any other people waiting for test results. It’s not easy to not know what something is and waiting to find out is no picnic.
I also recently started taking Spanish classes, so I need to reserve time to study for that in addition to my writing here.
Introduction
On this website, I write about communications I receive from Robin to demonstrate what is possible in terms of connecting with loved ones in spirit and to give examples of his abilities. But today, I would like to start by sharing some communications I sent to him recently.
Afterlife communication is truly a two-way street of giving and receiving. It is wonderful to receive signs, symbols, synchronicity, messages and communications from our loved ones in spirit. It is a good practice to ask for communications as well.
But it is just as important for those of us on earth to give and send messages of love and support to our loved ones in spirit also. That way, it is truly a balanced, ongoing relationship.
I have joked with Robin over the years that our communications are a little like a spiritual ping-pong match!
So, here are the communications I sent to him.
Heart Vision
On Sunday, October 13, 2019, I spent some time relaxing and watching the Bee Gees’ movie, Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band. I like to watch Robin’s videos because it helps me to feel close to him and connect with his spirit and energy.
In various interviews I’ve seen and read over the years, the Bee Gees spoke about how the movie was bad for their career and did not get good reviews at the time. Later in the day, during a quiet meditative moment, I thought about that.
Then I said to Robin that for those of us who never met him and who never followed his career, the movie is another opportunity for us to see what he was like on screen and to see his smile.
I said that there are a lot of cute, funny moments in that movie that fans love and make us laugh. I also said to him that it was not all bad and we can just fast-forward through the goofy parts that we don’t want to see, lol! That’s what I do, haha!
As a spirit, I’m sure he is glad fans still enjoy the movie. It was nice to tell him how I felt. It’s good to give loved ones in spirit a kind word or encouragement as part of afterlife communication.
I said to him directly that I see him and his work though my heart, whether watching his videos and movies or just in general. I shared this quote with him:
“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”
― Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince
When we see our loved ones with our heart, whether they still are incarnate or deceased, this creates a magical connection and strong bond of love that is infinite. Seeing with the heart is similar to speaking the language of the heart which is so important to loved ones in spirit.
The world is filled with harsh energies. So I think we can all benefit from seeing those we love with our hearts to soften things a bit, even if it’s challenging. We can also benefit from surrounding ourselves with people who see us with their hearts as well.
How many people do you have in your life that see you with their heart? It may depend on the situation. It’s not always easy to find this. Someone who has known us for years may not see us with their heart whereas as a brief encounter with a cashier in a store can make you feel like you were seen with that person’s heart.
One other important question is, do you see yourself with your heart? This is something I’m working on because I have a tendency to be too hard on myself at times. Part of healing from cancer is healing this tendency within myself and learning to see myself with my heart with gentleness and understanding.
Dr. Kristin Neff, co-founder of the Center for Mindful Self-Compassion, constructively addresses this tendency in an excellent article you can find here.
It is one of my favorite songs. Have you heard it before? For me, the lyrics are very important and I absorb the message into my soul.
It is saying that we can only see our value and worth if we look at our lives through Heaven’s eyes. We cannot see where our true worth lies if we look at our lives through the eyes of man.
Do you see yourself through the eyes of man or through Heaven’s eyes? If a person who loves you can see you with their heart, that is beautiful.
For a broader perspective, this song reminds us to look at our lives through Heaven’s eyes, with the eyes of love, understanding, forgiveness and compassion.
Many times in our lives, sometimes even daily (especially in the workplace), we are subjected to being seen through the eyes of judgment. All over the world, people are being bullied and abused. This is unacceptable.
It is important to never see yourself through the eyes of an abuser, bully or someone who is hyper-critical. They cannot see you rightly. Their minds are clouded with their unresolved personal dramas, pain, fear, and faulty conditioning.
I am writing about this because someone reading may be going through this and I want to send out a positive message of encouragement. We all need reminders at times.
Do your best to see yourself through Heaven’s eyes. Practice seeing yourself with your heart. It’s easy to say this and a lot harder to do sometimes. But it’s something we would benefit from training ourselves to do.
Seeing ourselves through Heaven’s eyes is one of the greatest ways to protect oneself from the negative effects of abusive words, unfair judgment and criticism. This song has helped me immensely over the years in terms of my own personal healing.
It’s about seeing ourselves and others through the eyes of love.
This song suggests that the worth of a person should be measured by how much he or she gave, not by how much material wealth was gained. Robin gave us so much of himself, even through this movie that he did not like too much. He is still giving a lot of himself as a spirit, which is why I love and care about him so much. He’s given me a lot to share with you.
So, I took this opportunity to share this message with him about seeing him with my heart and through Heaven’s eyes. I hope you benefit from this message also.
How We View the Afterlife Communication We Receive
When it comes to the afterlife messages I receive from Robin, there are a broad range of types of communication where he uses different tools and methods. Lately, I have noticed some signs of his presence with me that are treats. They are subtle, but sweet and I value them tremendously. I see these signs with my heart.
Messages from loved ones in spirit are not always going to be a grand gesture, although they can be. I have experienced them and shared many with you on this website, such as this message on money.
But it is important for me to always acknowledge, love and appreciate the subtle signs that may not have a huge deeper meaning like the Ubuntu synchronicity. Sometimes, the messages are just, “Hi, I’m here,” or “I heard your request.” These types of signs are precious too.
It is important for me to communicate that we on earth should not blow off gentler or more subtle communications from loved ones in spirit as nothing or insignificant.
That’s like complaining that I got a chocolate cupcake instead of a big 5-layer cake. Well, what’s wrong with the cupcake? Cupcakes are great too!! Sometimes, all you need is a cupcake.
When Robin turned his picture upside down on his altar, that was the big 5-layer cake. But, he can’t do that all of the time. It wouldn’t be as special if he did. And I don’t need that all of the time. He did that for me when I needed to know he was around in a way that I could not deny.
So, I love my “cupcake” signs! They are great for everyday communications.
The “smaller,” more subtle signs are a big deal too when you consider that we are communicating across dimensions. I know we Americans like things smack bang in our faces, at least according to Robin, lol! But our loved ones in spirit communicate in a variety of ways that must be appreciated. I am grateful for what I am given.
So now, I would like to share a couple of the messages I have received lately. I see them through Heaven’s eyes.
Peppermint Sign:
On October 5th, I watched the video for medium Suzanne Giesemann that I mentioned to you in my previous post.
I liked her focus on evidence-based mediumship so that her readings have much more credibility.
At one point, she suggested that we ask for a sign from a loved one in spirit. So, since I had my notebook in front of me and was taking notes, I wrote my request for a sign from Robin, which was simply this:
I ask for a loving sign from Robin today…round red and white peppermint candy.
That’s what came into my mind and all I could think of at the moment. I did not want to take much more time trying to think of a sign to ask for because I wanted to pay attention to what Ms. Giesemann was saying.
I was not able to watch the entire session because I had a date with my husband for a late lunch. We went out for Chinese food.
When we got to the restaurant, I have to admit that I was looking to see if those peppermints were on the front counter, but there were none to be found.
So, we had our yummy lunch and then came home. We watched television at home that evening.
Just after midnight on October 6th, which was my 53rd birthday, I watched the show called A Million Little Things. It was Season 2, Episode 2 called Grand Canyon.
I love that show! The episode was so synchronistic. In that episode, there was a psychic medium who provided clear evidence of the presence of Maggie’s deceased brother. So, I unexpectedly saw an evidential medium on television in very close proximity to watching Suzanne earlier on October 5th.
During the episode, Maggie goes into a restaurant. She sits at the bar. A man sitting next to her starts talking about the mints in a bowl at the host booth. I was quite surprised! I was thinking that maybe I was getting my sign from Robin after all.
Then he said the bowl of mints “was like a peppermint septic tank.”
There was my sign! Jackpot! They weren’t the round red and white peppermint candy like the kind in the picture above. They were round white mints. But it was still peppermint showing up about about 12 hours after I asked for the sign. So, I’ll take it.
I didn’t get the mints at a real life restaurant, but I did get them in a television restaurant, so it was a nice surprise. I thanked Robin for that and considered it my birthday present from him. There’s my “cupcake!”
Ms. Giesemann said you could ask your loved one to put the thought in your head about what the sign could be. So, maybe Robin put the thought into my head about peppermint candy because that was pretty fast turn-around.
Poppy on a Canadian License Plate:
On October 7th while driving home, we drove by a car where I noticed a flower on the license plate. I said to my husband that I thought it was a poppy. He slowed down so the car could pass us and I could see the plate. It was an Ontario plate with a poppy on the left side. Someone in the family was a veteran. I was so happy to see this plate. Ontario plates are common where I live in Florida because people are escaping the cold weather. But I have never seen a plate with the poppy on it.
I felt it was a rare and special gift and I acknowledged Robin’s presence with me. Here is what the plate looked like.
It’s one of those small things that is really a big thing when you consider the perfect timing of events leading me to be able to see that plate.
That’s all I have to share for now. If you like reading about afterlife communication stories, you may like this website. It shows that lots of people are communicating with loved ones in spirit.
I hope you enjoyed this post and found something in it that will fortify your soul.
Afterlife communications can sometimes occur as a chain reaction of events in which loved ones in Spirit combine different methods of communication over the course of several weeks.
This post is about how my dream communication with Robin, which I recently wrote about, expanded into several exciting events of meaningful synchronicity. The synchronicity is meant to draw our attention to some very important concepts.
The concepts relate to ancestral healing and the higher consciousness of universal oneness throughout all humankind.
Synchronicity often guides me in terms of what to write about here. I sense that it is very important that I write about these topics to help us progress spiritually and see the world in a new way.
Before I get into the details of the post, I wanted to let you know that I just found out about this free online workshop by medium Suzanne Giesemann on how to better communicate with loved ones in spirit. It takes place on October 5th. I thought I would let you know in case anyone is interested. I already signed up for it. 🙂
Dream-Synchronicity Combo Pack
A few weeks ago, while I was in the process of writing my post called Afterlife Dreams: I Can Hear You, I was doing my own private research on ancestral healing. I was doing this a few days prior to September 13th, which is the date this post was published.
In my writing, I like to include a timeline with exact dates when I can so you can follow the sequence of events better.
It is an excellent and thought provoking article. It helps us to examine how we can live our lives in a way that brings healing not only to ancestors of the past and present, but also to our ancestors yet to be born.
As I was reading the article, I came across what to me was an incredible and timely synchronicity. Here is the text I read. The bold is mine for emphasis:
I once had a dream in which I found myself standing in front of a long table. Seated at the table was a group of ascended masters who called themselves “The Committee.”
At the time I read this, I was quite blown away because of the close mirror image with what I had written for my blog post. A dream where she is standing in front of a long table? It sounded eerily familiar. Here is the text I had written about my dream about Robin, showing the synchronicity:
I saw Robin sitting at a long table. There was a woman sitting to his right. I do not know who she is. He looked like he did when he was in his 30’s, with short blond hair.
Robin spoke to the woman and said, “She’s tired.” He was talking about me.
I was not in the dream, but looking at the two of them from the perspective of standing in front of them.
It is amazing to me that I found this article at the exact same time I was in the process of writing my post about this dream of Robin sitting at a long table. The settings with both dreams are nearly identical.
In terms of my twin soul connection with Robin, I have seen a repeating pattern over the years where something I read or write about him ends up being mirrored back to me within a short period of time.
With twin souls, the events of our lives come together at the same time in tandem with each other, even when one twin is disembodied. This synchronicity is a good example of this. With this message, I definitely felt like Robin was walking side by side with me. Dreams and standing in front of long tables…very interesting. I love how the dream morphed into a synchronicity.
I knew something was up when I received this message. What is the probability that I would be writing about my dream of Robin at the same time I read about Dr. Rich’s dream? Very low I believe.
Ancestral Healing
I took this as a very important message to focus on ancestral healing and as a directive to answer the questions for myself that she asks in the article. Since you are reading this, perhaps you are meant to address this in your own life, for the benefit of yourself and others in your family.
Our ancestors endured pain and trauma of varying degrees while alive. I believe that there are ways that those of us still living in the physical can assist in healing the wounds of our ancestors. We can help heal their wounds by how we live and what we accomplish in our lives.
What specifically can we do to heal the wounds of our ancestors that we still carry?
For me, the fact that several people of my generation have become educated has helped to heal a deep ancestral wound of a lack of education. We have earned Bachelors and Masters Degrees, which is something my ancestors never had the opportunity to do.
I almost completed my doctorate in clinical psychology, but couldn’t quite make it. I used to think about this with a heavy heart. But now I see that perhaps I made it easier for a future ancestor to take this path in higher education and earn the degree. I hope I find out someday that one of my younger ancestors was able to do what I couldn’t. That is an ancestral wound of mine that I would love to see healed. We can be healed by the success of our ancestors whether past, present or future.
In terms of Robin, it is my point of view that the financial and creative success the Bee Gees earned brought about massive healing for his ancestors of the past, present and future. As was mentioned in his Who Do You Think You Are episode, his ancestors from Paisley, Scotland suffered great poverty in their lives.
The Bee Gees also endured significant poverty during their childhood as Robin mentioned here in this video.
You can hear him talk about it at about 2:30 in. We are blessed to experience his sense of humor and what a kind person he was with a good heart and depth to his soul. I don’t really like saying “was” though, because he still “is,” just without his physical body. Some of you who have been communicating with Robin know this firsthand just as I do.
It appears to me that the wealth and success the Bee Gees acquired helped heal this ancestral wound so that going forward, the people in Robin’s lineage would not have to suffer this type of poverty ever again. At least I hope that’s the case. Robin did his part to ensure the financial well-being of future generations.
Ubuntu Synchronicity
On September 24, 2019, I spent some time doing additional reading of the article by Dr. Rich I mentioned above. I was thinking about writing a piece about ancestral healing in addition to describing the dream synchronicity I just shared with you. So, I went back to do more research.
After I was done reading her article on ancestral healing again, I decided to visit her website for the first time. She had a link to her personal website at the end of her ancestral healing article.
I absolutely love the photo of the children sitting with their feet joined together in a circle. It’s an extremely powerful image.
I read through the article and really loved it. I highly recommend it as well as the videos she links to. According to Dr. Rich:
“Ubuntu is not a religious philosophy. Neither is it political. But it challenges every belief of most religions and political ideologies. It simply states, “I am what I am because of who we all are.” It requires a state of consciousness that understands and accepts the fact that at the quantum level, we are all made of the same star stuff. We all come from the same origins. Beyond the appearance of separation, lies a greater truth. We are all connected.”
I had never really heard about Ubuntu, at least not that I can remember. But it is definitely a philosophy in alignment with my values.
According to Wikipedia, Ubuntu is a Southern African term with various meanings:
Ubuntu (Zulu pronunciation: [ùɓúntʼù])[1] is a NguniBantu term meaning “humanity.” It is often translated as “I am because we are,” or “humanity towards others,” but is often used in a more philosophical sense to mean “the belief in a universal bond of sharing that connects all humanity.”[2]
In Southern Africa, it has come to be used as a term for a kind of humanist philosophy, ethic, or ideology, also known as Ubuntuism propagated in the Africanisation (transition to majority rule) process of these countries during the 1980s and 1990s.
Since the transition to democracy in South Africa with the Nelson Mandela presidency in 1994, the term has become more widely known outside of Southern Africa, notably popularised to English-language readers through the ubuntu theology of Desmond Tutu.[3] Tutu was the chairman of the South African Truth and Reconciliation Commission (TRC), and many have argued that ubuntu was a formative influence on the TRC
I thought this article on Ubuntu would be great to read to Robin at tea time. So, I emailed it to myself on that same day, September 24th. However, things in my life had gotten so busy I did not have a chance to read it to him.
A couple of days later on September 26th, I had been doing some work in my office. Then I walked into our kitchen. My husband Julian was sitting in the living room watching television.
After a few moments he turned and looked at me and said, “I’m studying Ubuntu.”
I was like, “What!?”
I walked over to the television and saw in front of me the word, “Ubuntu” from the YouTube video he was watching.
I’m sure you can imagine my surprise when I saw this.
My husband had absolutely no knowledge of my recent study of Ubuntu. I hadn’t mentioned anything to him about what I was writing for my blog post and I had not mentioned anything to him about Ubuntu. I had just found out about it myself so I wasn’t ready to talk about it.
Well, guess who was ready to talk about it? I can almost hear Robin joking with me saying, “I thought you were going to read that article on Ubuntu to me.” That was a strong reminder, let me tell you. I did finally read it to him after I got this message!
God and Robin really know what they are doing, orchestrating these synchronicities like this.
My husband was studying Ubuntu, the software operating system, not the African philosophy.
I’ll spare you the boredom by not including here, the video he was watching, lol! But I just want to say that my husband has always been a part of my connection with Robin, right from the very beginning of our afterlife communication. That is when he started delivering the Robin-related synchronicities! But he does not know that until after the fact, when I tell him he just gave me another synchronicity.
I am fascinated by the timing of this synchronicity. I told my husband about how I had planned to read an article on Ubuntu to Robin and how it was in my inbox for two days prior to this, unbeknownst to him.
I asked my husband if he had ever heard of Ubuntu. He said he had heard of the operating system, but that night was the first night he actually sat down to watch a video to begin studying it.
It’s amazing how his decision to do that coincided with my finding Dr. Rich’s article. This is the first time I have ever heard him mention Ubuntu and the first time I saw him watch a video on it.
As soon as Julian mentioned Ubuntu, I knew it was a message from Robin referencing the article. Ultimately, this synchronicity with Ubuntu connects back to him because I found the Ubuntu article as a result of the ancestral wounds article which gave me the dream synchronicity (standing in front of a long table).
There is one other thing about the ancestral healing article by Dr. Rich. It was updated on November 17, 2011. This is the birthday of Robin’s late mom Barbara Gibb as I mentioned here. The article is linked above if you want to see what I’m talking about.
So, there is synchronicity and meaning on multiple, deeper levels with this one article that I found all because I wanted to do personal research on ancestral healing. One thing led to another in a chain reaction of synchronicity! I can’t help but notice these things and it is all part of afterlife communication. Once you start really paying attention, it’s amazing what comes through!
Further Exploration of Ubuntu
I would like to present this YouTube video by Getrude Matshe at TEDxTeAro as one of the best descriptions of the Ubuntu philosophy I could find at this time.
I encourage you to watch this entire inspirational video of this extremely courageous woman. She is the embodiment of Ubuntu. She talks about her emigration to New Zealand from Zimbabwe, Africa and mentions Australia briefly. Since these are countries Robin is closely connected to, I’m sure he would like my including this video here. Some of her story may be hard to listen to. But in order to properly respect the philosophy of Ubuntu, I think it is important to share this talk by a spiritually brilliant and intelligent woman from Africa.
I include this quote from the video below. You can hear it beginning at 12:20 in:
“We sleepwalk through life most of the time. We meet people sitting next to us and never find out who they are.
In Africa, when you meet someone, you look them in the eye, you greet them, you acknowledge their humanity.
You will never bump into another human being and not acknowledge their humanity and their presence…I am because you are…The human race is one. In Ubuntu, there is no you, there is no me, there is only we…”
This is a beautiful way of life to aspire to. Imagine how much more connected to each other we would feel if we lived this way.
You can read a dozen book definitions of Ubuntu and that is fine. I do that too and it is necessary in learning about a concept. But I did not want to give you just a book definition.
Sometimes we as humans need to hear real stories that challenge us and open our hearts. As we listen to her story, we will begin to understand what Ubuntu really is.
Ubuntu in the Spirit World
Ms. Matshe’s statement that “there is no you, there is no me, there is only we” is something I personally believe reflects the ultimate truth about life in the spirit world, or Heaven if you will. With all my heart, I truly believe that Robin lives in a place filled with the spirit of Ubuntu, joined with other members of our soul family as “we.”
The reason I know this is because he was already expressing the spirit of Ubuntu before he passed away. It is reflected in his humanitarian work, some of which I wrote about here.
The other reason I know this is because of how he came to me after his death with such love, kindness and creativity, even when he had never known me during his life on Earth.
Some cynical people might read this and say, “Why would he contact you Christina? He didn’t even know you.” But that consciousness is not reflective of Ubuntu. It is anti-Ubuntu. And loving, evolved spirits don’t think that way.
Why not me? I love him, I do the work, I’m sincere, I believe in him and I believe in our connection. I’m attuned to him and I pay attention.
I also believe that Robin is communicating with lots of people on Earth. The vast majority of them are going to be everyday people like me who are not in the public eye. So, in most cases, we won’t hear about the communications. Still, I believe that members of his (our) soul family stretch far and wide and as a spirit, Robin can find us.
It didn’t matter if we knew each other on Earth or not because when it comes down to it, we are closely connected in the spirit world. And that is what I knew and sensed about him from the time of his physical death.
The fact that he didn’t know me didn’t stop him from contacting me. He has included me in his life as a spirit person because his essence is beautiful, one very much of love and acceptance. In other words, very Ubuntu.
Maybe he discovered soon after his passing that we are twin souls. He probably knew months before I did, but was trying to tell me with all the dreams, synchronicity and telekinesis. He can see who I really am and that is not my physical body. He didn’t know me as the person I am now, but he knows my soul, light and my essence that existed before this incarnation. That is a lot more important.
Robin has beautiful, strong energy. Being with him is like winning the lottery 50,000 times. I really hit the jackpot when I connected with him. It is incredibly uplifting to communicate with him. It has helped me so much in terms of overcoming challenging life circumstances.
Here on Earth, as least in more Westernized countries, we are conditioned to be rugged individualists. But in my heart, I believe it is not like that in the higher dimensions of Spirit. I sense that when I return to life in spirit, I will meet with Robin again and we will be a part of a tremendously loving, harmonious collective of spirits doing our work, and play, to uplift the lives of other spirits and those on Earth.
I began my work with Robin through this website in this incarnation. Perhaps this is a continuation of work we carried out together in another place and time that I don’t remember. But I have all the faith in the world that we will continue it after I leave this Earth. It will take on a different form. But it will continue, in the energy of “we.”
Ubuntu-Themed Songs
Just for fun, I thought I would include a couple of songs that beautifully reflect the principles of Ubuntu.
The first song is My World by the Bee Gees. The spirit of Ubuntu is woven all throughout the Bee Gees career as manifested through all the humanitarian and charity work they did. This world is home to all of us and this song reflects that sentiment beautifully. I love seeing the young Bee Gees!
Border Song, composed and sung by Sir Elton John, and written by lyricist Bernie Taupin is truly one of my favorite songs. It expresses the aspect of Ubuntu that is brotherhood and peace.
I never saw the Bee Gees in concert but I did see Sir Elton John in the mid 1980’s in Massachusetts. He’s a true master artist and I’m so glad I got to enjoy his concert.
I hope you enjoyed this post and the authors and artists featured in it. There are some truly amazing people in this world and I’m happy to be able to share information about them as Robin-related synchronicity guides me down the path of spiritual growth, learning and knowledge.
I can see why he and my ancestors wanted me to write about this.
