Welcome back to my discussion about skepticism! If you have not read Skepticism: Part 1, please do that first so that you have the proper context for this post.
What I would like to do now is give my response to the skeptic I wrote about in Part 1. I want to address this issue of skepticism head-on and communicate clearly my perspective on my connection with Robin. I have a lot of feelings to explore in this post, so I hope you are ready to join me.
Bragging
My connection with Robin has been validated over and over again throughout the years. That is what this website is showing: the truth of our connection.
There is a difference between legitimately sharing experiences and bragging. I am sharing legitimate experiences that have been life-changing and making my contribution to the literature on afterlife communication. It is possible that there are some non-famous twins online who do come across as bragging about their celebrity twin flame connection. I do not consider myself one of them.
If someone is bragging, then they might not be doing the hard work and soul surgery that is part of the twin soul connection. One of my former professors also called it “psycho-archaeology.”
If someone is coming across as narcissistic, grandiose, or conceited when writing about being the twin soul of a celebrity, or anyone’s twin soul for that matter, then I would consider that a red flag too. The twin soul connection requires humility because there is so much we don’t know on this side of the veil.
Robin did not brag about his success. Being conceited was not his personality. He was very humble and down to earth. My connection with him is infused with this way of being.
If you have a twin soul in spirit, in some cases, the one on earth is going to be presented with a lot of work to do. It is work on oneself and work in the world to support others. The moment Robin came into my life, I had a lot of work to do because there was so much I did not understand.
I can’t do anything about the fact that Robin was famous. That was part of his earthly identity. I don’t see why I should be penalized for that to the point that I can’t even share what I have experienced with his spirit. To some people, my even mentioning his name at all would seem like bragging.
The labels of “non-famous” and “famous” are the energies of separation. What better way to separate and divide people than to put us into these categories. It is earthly hierarchical thinking. I think it is well past time to stop deifying celebrities. I also think it’s time to stop undervaluing non-famous people.
One and Only?
I already know I am not Robin’s one and only. He was married and loves his wife and I’m sure many other spirits that he’s met since his passing. I’m married and love my husband, so he is not my one and only either in that respect. But his spirit is a part of my marriage and blends with Julian regularly as I mentioned in my post Close to You. I am convinced that spirits are doing this kind of thing all the time with humans, unbeknownst to us. The involvement of spirits with humans can be benevolent or malevolent. I learned about this through the work of Francisco Cândido Xavier and Spirit Andre Luiz in a book called In the Domain of Mediumship: Life in the Spirit World (2013).
I love Robin as a valuable member of my soul family. His energy, love, creativity and wisdom are always welcome in my life. I would say that in some ways, yes, he is my one and only. He’s the one and only spirit that I’ve shared these many profound experiences with.
The things that Robin did for me helped to create an unbreakable bond of our souls. I am very loyal to Robin. I consider him a teacher, spiritual partner and guide. I don’t have any proof of this, but it wouldn’t surprise me if he is a spirit guide for many others on earth as well. He loves people and his fans.
Facing Fear
Fear of being seen in a negative light by others is one of the greatest obstacles to sharing the truth of who you really are and what has happened to you. However, it is an obstacle that can be overcome with support and inner strength.
I allowed what this skeptic wrote to keep me from sharing my story about Robin publicly for many years. I was really concerned that I would be seen as bragging about my connection with him. But during that time, I was learning and preparing for what I am doing now with this blog.
I am grateful for the writer’s comments. They made me stronger, and over the years, caused me to closely examine what I have been experiencing with Robin. The end result of all of those years of incubation, afterlife communication and self-examination is contained on the pages of this website. I faced my inner demons of insecurity and gained in courage.
It takes a strong commitment and devotion to be able to sustain a conscious, long-term, cross-dimensional twin soul connection. That is because the physical world is so seductive with its constant distractions. I find that having Robin in my life as a disembodied twin soul makes me slow down and quiet down so I can perceive him. It is necessary for me to step away, pull away, from the outer world and go into my inner world to connect with Robin in peace.
I take what I share with Robin very seriously. I wanted to enter into this connection with him only if I could be consistent and not fail him. I make time for him and communicate with him every day. I have spent years documenting my experiences in the hope that someday, I would be ready to share them. That time finally came in April, 2018.
Complexity
If you are skeptical of me, I don’t blame you. I understand due to the subject matter. But I hope you will still give me a chance. That is something skeptics sometimes do not do. It’s possible to be too quick to dismiss someone like me. Dismissing someone as crazy can be a form of over-simplification. If you can tell yourself someone is crazy, then you can wrap up everything they say in a nice neat little box, put a bow on it and toss it out because it must be worthless. If you consider that a person may not be “crazy,” then you might have to consider what they have to say, and that is of course more complicated and complex. The twin soul phenomenon that I am experiencing is very complex.
People, myself included, are usually skeptical when presented with information that does not match their current belief systems. People also tend to be skeptical when hearing about the experiences of others that they have not had yet or may never have.
I am far from the only one having otherworldly experiences. It always helps me when I see other people share their personal stories. Have you seen the website for the twin ray of Michael Hutchence of INXS? It is called Cormael. I have received great benefit from their writings over the years:
I would also like to point out respectfully that the skeptic I am writing about speaks about being blessed with answers about twin flames from the Archangels. That is fine if that is what the person’s experience is, but it is also something some people might be skeptical about:
With my own experiences, I required a huge amount of validation of my connection with Robin before I felt secure in it and really knew that it is mutual. That is because I was facing something completely new to me with a spirit person I could not see and never met. Still, I loved him and felt like I knew him from my soul family. My point is that I gave my connection with Robin a chance and time to develop and grow. That is another reason why it took me six years before I was ready to write about this.
The twin soul connection I share with Robin is beautiful, but not always easy. Especially in 2012, I had to learn about afterlife communication, soul groups and twin souls all at the same time. I was in the process of understanding why I felt the way I did about Robin and why my life was suddenly filled with dreams and synchronicity about him.
Some people say that when you meet your twin soul, you “just know.” But how can you “just know” if you’ve never even heard of twin souls or flames? I didn’t “just know.” I had to do a lot of research, soul-searching and introspection. Sometimes what I read did not match up with how I felt. As a result, I always went with what I was being given personally and directly from Spirit.
My heart told me that something was going on within me concerning Robin around the time of his death, but what that was exactly needed clarification. I didn’t have the luxury of talking with him face to face so I really had to tune into my soul and to God to get the answers I needed.
Conclusion
I believe I have co-created a website that shows my true interest, love, care and concern for who Robin was as a person and for who he is now as a spirit. I care about the depth and substance of his life, what he believed in and what he stood for. The fame that he had is not what is important to me and I have felt this way since I reconnected with him. His fame was a vehicle through which I recognized him.
Fame had its ups and downs for Robin as you know if you have followed his life story. Through his fame, he was able to bring beautiful music to humanity and he was/is able to provide for his family for generations to come. These are all great things. But, as I previously mentioned in my post, Famous Spirits?, I don’t believe he is famous on the other side like he was here on earth. However, people on earth still perceive him as being famous so if I mention him, that’s what they are going to be thinking about.
I am here to open my heart, share what has occurred in my life and hopefully benefit someone along the way. I don’t believe in trying to convince a person that what I’m saying here is true because I feel that is disempowering to me. My experience in life is that when you try to convince someone of something, it takes a lot of energy and even after all of that, they still may not be convinced.
I genuinely wish to be credible though, so I have presented my afterlife communication experiences with Robin as clearly as I can. I provide pictures and excerpts when I can to support what I am saying.
What a true twin soul/flame does depends on the person/pair. There is no universal manual on how true twin souls behave. We also don’t have to live up to the impossible standards of others. I have read about twin soul missions described as things only Jesus could do. I’m not up for anything like that. I will do my best to make a quiet contribution through this website.
I have done my best to share some of what I do in my relationship with Robin. I have made many changes over the years due to spiritual growth. Right now, what I’m doing works for us.
I am passionate about afterlife communication with Robin. I know I am being supported by God and Robin because I keep getting more communications to write about.
If you benefit from the spiritual service work I am doing here, and you understand, thank you so much. I am writing for the people out there that need it the most. If you have a twin soul in spirit that has reached out to you from beyond, I really hope that what I write on this website helps you in some way. That would bring me a lot of joy!
Love,
Christina